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10:39:02 pm on February 14, 2009 |
The acceptance of the soul is hard because of the ego factor they have. Time has shown mankind teh meaning of this. Internal projection makes sense if you can understand what is projection. People these days do not understand how important bieng in a group is. It is hard for those who think out of the box. Time strategy and pre and post evalauative techniques of management and the objeve of the understanding of the mind(Con. Gramm.) Contadictive to the theory of the very basis of the understasnding of human behavior patterns go beck to centuries. Nevertheless, we can still trace it by playing mind games with mind games, by this I mean that ex:- Play this simple game with a good friend and aska question, then ask a question in anotehrway and select the answer of less proportion. Once you have done that then ask another question in relation.
Let us see an example:-
q:- May I know your name please?
a:- My name is angie.
Q:- My name is Jhonnathan, how about your’s?
a:- Why should I tell you?
Q2:-Because I am sure we could be amazing friends. We got so much in common
A2:-Okay, my name is Angie
So , that is a mind game , lets try another:-
Sam:-I like going to the pub
Lauren:- I love goint to concerts
Sam:- What concerts, do’nt tell me, Pop crap
Lauren:- No, I mean Rock concerts
Sam:- Well! that means taht you must be good at rocks then, are you?
Lauren:- No you Mutt head, I mean Rock music, not rock crap dude
Sam:- That’s nice, I love playing rock infact.
Lauren:- So, this is anotehrway of distracting the mind from thought.
These are games for people who like to play with you .
Another set of induviduals like to be dumb, for tehm I have formulated a simple projective theory on playing:- )
Ex:-
What do you like to eat?
X1 = I like veggies, I like fries.
X2= I am sure you dont got brains then. Do you?
x1= I like veggies, it makes me strong like popoye
x2= You dont got teh body, well I work out buddy
x1= I do’nt, I work though.
This is a way of playing a game with the dumb
Projective physcology has proved to work in times of need, ex:- depression and other factors of life.
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12:28:35 am on September 8, 2008 |
Many people have asked me over and over again on howe to actually live with eternal happiness, forget their tension in life and drift.My answer to most of them is just that if they want to live ib eternal joy , and happinesss, they will need to sacrifice everything they have because when we sacrifice we acieve, and achiement so grat that we cannot honour what we have by awarding it but the inner light will then glow like the sun and we will ONLY then understand the importance of bieng happy is not very hard at all.Over a period of time I have noticed that people around the world tend to look for love and when they find love they tend to be more than just disturbed.The reson for this is simple, it is just because u are prioritizing life and as if if you dont do it like that you cant be happy.Girls and Boys Men and Women of all ages are the same and they believe that if we cant change it we should live with it, this is true when it comes to an environment where in you cannot change yourself.But what if you are in an environment where you are your own leader then you will see happiness because you do what you want so I say just this
“Solace and ecstacy , of the mind is a gift of god , dont abuse it , dont mock your own ego
because when you do that you will turn to be a bitter apple”
“Life isnt just , a relationship with a girl , having sex and then saying that I want to marry another, it is about commitment and when you commit yourself bind by it .It may be the hardest thing but a promise not kept with a person can turn out to be vile”
Live it now, Dont care about who says what , dont care about what may happen but at the same time think of future consequence before you take that step.I met couples who live in grief because they had to abort their children and that is because they were not ready.
remember :- respect life and life will respect you , abuse it and you will suffer accordingly because life is like a balance , you cant be too good nor too bad ,We are created like this , our brains have value only when we have the potential for use and this potential come ONLY with grace.
“LOVE YOURSELF, LOVE WHAT YOU ARE, LOVE GOD, LOVE EVERYBODY “
“THEN THINK OF LOVING YOUR OPPOSITE SEX, BECAUSE WHEN YOU CANT LOVE YOUR VERY EXISTANCE IS OF NO USE , YOU ARE LIKE A PERSON WHO LIVES LIFE IN YOUR OWN WORLD ;IN A BOX”
“PRAY IN SOLITUDE FORGET YOUR PRESENCE , FORGET PHYSICAL MORTALITY , AND YOU CAN FEEL TRUE LOVE THROUGH WITHIN YOURSELF”
Sarathy
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01:14:31 pm on August 23, 2008 |
Leadership skills and mangerial thought processes has been passed on over centuries now, With the improvement in QWL and the development of the Industry , we can see that there has been Business target oriented changes in the work we do. People always say that LEADERSHIP qualities come for few but i guess with a Trainer like Vivek, who could interpret , analyse and improve Training methodologies within the organisation and adapt to dynamic thought processes , in the understanding of the Human Mind and How to actually achieve Targets through simple things made sense. Training has always been a good way to unwind but at the same time Learn and Earn More .Vivek, our trainer taught the team how to actually improve themselves and , I played DUM all the while. the simple reason bieng that we can LEARN more than expected. When we understand human psycology and an insight into Human Behavioral Patterns based on a persons personality we can either change them for the better or worse. People these days say that SMART work is better than Hard Work. Agreeable for few but somtimes when we have both then we can triumph achievement.
Leadership skills are not derived, but the art of leadership is in how u manage and strategically trip what is needed for optimum production in a production unit with Minimum manpower . This will inturn show where we stand , Though technology has brought us to a far place , I would say that only 50 % will actually be productive cause the rest is not hence there wouldnt be use , howver Biz Apps and its usage has brought us to some kind of path . Vivek taught his subject , and said most of thE times
Improvements needed:-
“people come here to work,this is not your home , respect it DO YOUR WORK and get lost “
This is not the right way to say what you needed tp say because
When we use (<)Negitive Motivational Leadership skills it can show not only on your company but also on YOURSELF,
So a better way to say that would be
“People come her to work and so do we and I believe that if we did what we came here for we can be the best and probably Excellent for that matter”
By converting negitive derivitives into a positive fraction we can make not only ourself but the person in front of us more effecient and improve Mangerial QWLThe best way to say it is
DMAIC
To end I wouldsay that I liked the training I was given however
“IF WE CANT CHANGE SOME ONE OR SOMTHING WE DONT HAVE TO CHANGE OURSELF , BUT WE JUST NEED TO REFLECT TO SITUATIONS AT THAT TIME , AND BE OUR SELF”
DONT CARE , DONT FEAR,
DO WHAT U THINK IS RIGHT
Sarathy
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06:25:56 pm on July 30, 2008 |
The very need for some kind of substance and its requirement makes no sense and is of no Profitability for the Mind and the Body But teh Important thing of why do we need substance makes a person fall in love with it . As an when man mingles and enriches , and Grows in his life he sees cahanges , But it is this change which can either make a man a Good person or a bad person , The object is no more the subject of the Usage of that object . Hence the very importance of using suchg substances like drugs and chocaine is of no use and can cause imese reaction of the DNA functionalities of the genalogical tree. Smoking today has made man a slave to the object.
The very need for assistance and a rehab campcan help such people in their future..
Resist the impact and contract the importance
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08:20:48 pm on July 20, 2008 |
Its hard for the heart to take it anymore ,I feel like im broken down and I dont know what too do. Im crying but I cant find a solution, I feel left out and I cant do anything about it . This is a feeling of a looser
I see many people who have lost their battle , just because of ego .An Ego cant bring a person neither knowledge nor Wisdom because in that state of mind you think that you are the master ,you know what you are ,you dont care because it is the brain which tells you that you think that you are the best. But ,what you dont know is that just because of an EGO you can lose EVERYTHING. Its like bad luck or you could say that its like a doorstopper to the door to knowledge. Man has always proved it ,even the ladies have.
You can trey to cross a mountain but beleive it or not ,you may just fail because your ego is too high.
Remember ,when sucessful keep your mouth shut and walk ,just because you achieved somthing doesnot mean another cannot ,the competition started when you and your friend, brother, sister and so on started debating on a topic when you were a kid. Love can change you , love one another. Be like a rose in a garden . Remember they have great fragrance but they also have thorns.
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06:25:35 am on July 18, 2008 |
The universe as we see it is a noisy place for most , for me its a plce of pure silence. The theory of t5he BIG BANG has proved much . Astronimcal science has proved that due to the earth moving astroids in the universe it can be dangerous by nature however , the universe has proved to be an energetic place due to the chemistry of the knowlage to understand where what is and the urge of Scientific intelligence through within. yOU CAN Love the universe as it is because of the lack of gravity . Life on Earth has made quite a difference from the days of the Dinasaurs and the Knowlege of the greek Astronomers. New technology has revealed much about the universe however the search for an extraterrestial force has not made much in astronomical science . Life has made its mark due to the art of the urge of Knowing ones self.
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06:02:26 am on July 15, 2008 |
Over a Period Of time , it has been proved by science and other ways of understanding that Life and itsmaterialistic wants has imbalanced a persons life. Time has proved much in Science, technological and even in the industrialisation of the World. But, I would’nt state that Life is realistic in these fields because, Ecstacy Comes to those who believe inn enjoying life to its fullest and believing in themselves. Life has proven much and in order to survive in the current platform of life we should take life seriously and at the same time we should understand the importance of life’s requirements, benefits and endulde in the art to be happy in life . Over a study which was done by me , I found that most people have not really understood why we do things and for what benefit . Benefit, here means not only Monetary but non- monetary benefits , because if we love what we do that WE CAN DO IT AND NO MATTER WHAT PEOPLE CANT SAY ANYTHING BECAUSE THEY DONT UNDERSTAND YOU .Life in ecstacy comes when you can sacrifice Basic wants and needs. In order to acieve this we need to firt learn how to sacrifice and love one another . People all over the world tend to get selfish and the very essence of there need converts into a want and then greed and so on. Love one another thats a way of saying i have ecstacy , and if you want eternal bliss you need to work on it
To be contd….On next BLOG
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10:32:29 am on July 13, 2008 |
Friday, June 13, 2008
Intro :- The Blog is about how t o manage both sexes of life
We all Know that A ladys Though Should be respected , well Most of the time and If said anything it leads into a controversial Statement .
This Is my story :- of 1 girls though and how we believe that love may make or may brake many things
I Know Her, I LOVE her , I think of Her Often . But lets ask us Boys a Question :-DOES SHE LOVE ME THE SAME WAY I LOVE HER ? DOES SHE THINK OF ME
Most girls believe that a perfect guy is a perfect guy only if he has Materialistic value and if we ask ourselves IS THAT LOVE ?No , It isn’t because though we look for a person to speak to in times of need of the opposite sex we believe that it might ease us . I have been in and out in time and again and as of now I have lost faith in the opposite sex because I have been treated worse than a fool on a stage. The following is for all those people who have been Selected and then rejected over a period of time.She smells of A fragrance , it is a fragrance of pure Love I have for her, GREAT ! I love everything about her and believe that I can meterialise a relationship but she does’nt love me , Well probably you may need to give her that extra space to think , probably you have’nt done all to be where she wants you to be. Over a period of time you may feel , demotivated and unsecure as in she may have another boy friend , but a girl will think practically and not logically , logically only most men think because that’s how we are made , God gave us this life to enjoy is and not to depreciate our love and demoralize our thought . Over a period of time you may ask ,I could have done this and that but remember even if you are too planned it would not work the reason being Nature . Man cannot become machine the reason being we are born in this life and in this world . Our very existence is that we have our dues to this world , we pay in millions , we work our ass of for a life and even then I don’t love any woman , this kind of life a friend of mine leads today . I ask him if you love her so much and do not want any other woman except the woman you love go and get her.You know what his problem or rather an issue was , it was just FAITH . Its an essential utility of a perfect relationship
For all who are not married :-
If you think you don’t love any one , simply love a hobby of yours to the extent you can invent something , people will love you , Not for anything but for the simple reason that you HAVE DONE SOMETHING SUCCESSFUL , AND YOU DESERVE A HANDSHAKE
Some people think Wearing a stud is COOL , Ive got a new car , IM TRHE BEST , AND NO ONE CAN BEAT ME , BUT HEY MY FRIEND , YOU ARE A DECIMAL , WE ALL ARE DECIMALS OF THE EARTH . Some one some place and from some where is better than you in every way , This is an ego people have . If man could be more kind to all , Imagine , you may not be the best because there is no best , there is Good , not good , bad , very bad, Medium , Excellent in what every man or person does Hence we can say that there is 2 sides to a coin , if you turn the sides You willknow that there is Something new , If we did not have BAD PEOPLE THEN WE CAN’T CALL OURSELVES GOOD OR EXCELLENT BECAUSE OF THE FACT THAT THERE ARE BETTER PEOPLE THAN US. A woman wants a life filled with joy and some one who can love her more than the money we earn , more than the things we do , but if she cannot understand aboys thought she cannot understand how any man thinks , as in she can think but not that much of how a man perceives something .I’ve had no sex till date , I’ve had no one , my girlfriends , and I repeat my girl friend have been people who have been liking me and they don’t love me ? Tell me How to solve this issue:-
Ans:- When you love a person you need to keep all other things except god in your heart because it is because of god and Our mother that we are here. NO MATTER WHO , NO MATTER WHAT ! BALLS 2 THE WORLD I know , this is a wrong concept and if in a relationship you need to understand that IT IS BECAUSE OF YOU I AM HERE , AND I SHALL STAND BY YOU IN HARDSHIP AND IN HAPPY TIMES,“Love is a fragrance , it is a color of beauty in our hearts , if we don’t have it we are not to call ourselves A HUMAN BIENG, our emotions may be anything , our thoughts may be many but when we love some one if not done in the right way , at the right time and in style , we WILL GET CRUSHED in a relationship .
REMEMBER :-
Go where your heart tell you , love is blind , don’t think or the boat will go away and leave you on the doc k alone till the next one comes. Use NOT the physical body for your expression , use ONLY your mind . Use not your Body for lust because you will not only be erforming adultery if you have many boyfriends or girlfriends . Use your BODY IN THE RIGHT WAY . YOU HAVE 1 BODY , RESPECT WHAT YOU HAVE OR GOD / NATURE WILL HURT YOUAND CURB THAT THOUGHT.I know this girl , she likes to hang out with me , but no one likes to hang out with her , Why ,
Ans:- I believe we have this human body for ourselves , if shared we should do it in style and not use it like a toilet seat because of the fact that if we do so we may Passon fast and our depreciation value will go down .
Nealy every 20 year old today is NOT a virgin, Nearly 96.95 of the Earths Population believes that
GIRL:- I love my boy friend but I cannot trust him , I cannot believe his words , I cannot , and the list goes on like The man with the longest hair
BOY:- She makes me mad , I don’t believe her because I met her at one place at the time when she told me she had to stay home because her parents are Not well and both seem to have some disorder or the other, HOW DO I TRUST MY GIRL, HOW DO I LOVE HER WHEN I CANT TRUST HERWhen you cant trust a person there is no point in having a relationship because if you have a relationship you have to be truth ful to your partner , and if you are not then you may land up in problems or issues.
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10:23:47 am on July 13, 2008 |
Last Published on http://www.arcotsarathy.blogspot.com Monday, June 16, 2008
THE HUMAN WANT
Life , what does it mean. This physical life is never ending we may say but if we look at life it is beautiful . we are her for a reason , we are here to understand and reseprocate this generation to our future generation . It seems hard ,I know . But if life was easy we could not do what is requireed to get to the top .Intelligence is infinate . but intelligence if undersetimated can be painful. God gave us all this Human body , and a Human heart to love , Woman use more of the heart to work with while the man is a beast of his own
character because in his eyes it is PRACTICALITY AND LOGICAL THINKING that brings a man to where he is , There was this man , i dont know him but he was clibling mountains and in every voyage he had gone he succeeded . One day on a voyage on an island
he breaks his legs and he waled a mountain on METAL LEGS. Painful though it is this determination that we can call him a success story , It is hard not only for you but my friend and friends it is hard for every inuvidual today , Survival is hard ,to keep this body in shape is hard , life isnt just going to school , office, for our business. Money is a tool my friend . Were we born with money or did we come out of our mother woum with money no , we did not . We have copme on a voyage like no other, its is avoyage of life . If we live the way we do now we cannot have foresight left , just because for the fact that We need values . When i told a person i fought for a 50 pise coin , he laughed, but when i taught him the same value he understood that , it is that same 50 pise copin that has saved his Money . People lack values , character.When we achieve somthing we say boss I AM THE BEST , but are you really , NO your not you have achieved what every man or
woman has to achieve to be somewhere in life .There was this tuitipnj center where i live in Hyderabad and people who just finished their 3rd year of college had inferior complex issues , Issues of EGO and some character issues . Firiends, family we have this life now , we live now , we may be the best math person and the best student and the best work person at office , But what i would say is that everytime you achieve somthing dont think you are the BEST because in the world of compition and compititos there are people who can do better than you an d me and many in the world , BE HUMBLE. Laws make sense to mankind, they are tools to man , it is not laid down , a bill is passed for our development and our life has been rather interesting .Love NOT what you can have but LOVE WHAT YOU HAVE AND BE HAPPY WITH IT BECAUSE IF YOU LOVE WHATYOU CAN HAVE THE ESSENCE OF THE WANT IN OUR MINDS BECOME like the elastacity of demand and supply .Money makes many things happen , but will not give you that extra essence of peace of mind , that love we require to survive . If there is no love in the world it will crumble . There will be nothing in the world . Man fights for less price of Oil but has it materialised no , and it will not because if petrol prices have gone up due to the lack of Fossil fuels and energy . Soon the next life form may have to see bones which we have can be used as petrol but for HOW LONG can we use it , till all energy dies down , Solar energy has its limits too the best is the Cycle . You can keep the energy going and your body fit . The reason why ispoker about fuel in this is that when we want somthing we strive to get the best out of it but remember , give to the world what you get , The physical body which we have is just the 1 st step of 8 steps to go to god . God make this universe . God is there in each one of our hearts not because of anything but just because we are born with a Neurological and psycological intellegent mind to percieve. ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS LET GO , LIKE YOU ARE NAKED , AND LET GO NOT OF YOUR SELF BUT THE WORLDLY PLEASURES YOU HAVE THE WANT OF LIFE. Only this will ensure that even if you are unsuccessful u will be in the future because you have done . If you are not you can always write to me Stating
Your Name:-
Issue :-
Email and Ph Num
My Number is +919989394485 and +919701019650, simply sms me and Remember that im there when no one is because if there is some one then my work to you , im not a psycologist im a Student but looks at life in a different way and thinks differently
I LOVE EVERYBODY AND WISH THAT YOU DO THE SAME. ENEMIES WE SHOULD NOT BE BAD BECAUSE THEY MAY BE GOOD BUT BAD ONLY TO YOU FOR A REASON.
Sarathy
and i will tell you a suitable solution , if it should be done or not . That is up to you , We can make a plant grow but if we want it to grow properly we have to do things for it , it will not grow and give to us the required amount.
Sarathy
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10:18:08 am on July 13, 2008 |
Friends,
Realisation , what is it , what do I mean by the Word realisation. Why do we require it and need it.How does it Help us. How will it help me or me and my family.What is in it for me.
Well,
All conciousness can be realised if we make concious efforts to do so. Now the Question is how you manage the stress level in your bodty with the matter on the other side . In order to have a good balance you need to follow genral routine , do enough excersise and eat like an elephant . But , If your stress is of love failure you will need to do somthing else .That is You need to go on a trip ,ANYWHERE Just go for it . Life is too short in the physical world these days . People and their meterialistic value is increaing . Hence , making their Spiritual and the other spheres of Life harder on their part . In order to handle stress and inorder to deal with depression you will need to move on , and how you do that is by saying i know i can do whatever i can do when i do what i do wher ido is no ones except my business, and You can do it . Standing on your own fee takes time but living with the success you have and treating failure as success will bring you up and make you a better person.
Realisation comes with calm, with focus, determination of what you need and not what yopu want so realise NOW AND DONT BE TOO LATE
